Funny how this thing is going on & on & on... kids who are not interested in studying, are "forced" to go to school... wait... why do they dun-like study?... lots of factors... parent dun care... parent care too much... parent themselves are like that.... peer influence.... peer influence due to lack of parental guidance... in fact, the parent's daily actions, words, tones, behaviours, etc ... slowly, but surely, influences the kids.... Look at one of the tv ad, the parent kneels down to the kid in gratefulness as the kid can fold his own blanket!!!! hahahaha..... so, parents are at fault???!!! Nope, not totally... society is partly to be blamed... imagine some people trying to tell people that "hey! children are to be sayanged! Don't treat them harshly! Tell them the rationale, let them understand.... I'm different from you (normal folks), I talked to them..." ...... maybe it worked at the beginning where it is still during the old system, cos its a thing only a handful will do (makes them "different", seen as "wonderful" educators perhaps????) .... or is it they don't want their own kids to be punished... cos are their "darlings".... well, I dunno.... could be.... may be... but... kids' rationale is DIFFERENT from adults' rationale!!!! How should a lamb use speech to convince a tiger to become a herbivore?...
But what I see, as a result, nowadays is the type of kids/adults we have in society.... with the big SELF.... everything is themselves.... thinking about themselves... well, nothing wrong, some say, .... its the survival of the fittest... well, yeah, quite true... but... somehow seems weird... but then... and .... what can we do? We can't do anything to them, in case parent complain... Dun tell me u dunno how ur kid is behaving in school? What? U can't do anything to him? Then how the hell in the past 15 years have you been raising ur kid?.... Now u tell me u dissappointed with him? hmm.... who shld be more dissappointed...
.... seems its the "in" thing to not to mete punishment to those kids, but more "holy" way is to counsel them... wow, what a "holy" management... hmmm..... my belief is that kids at a smaller age cannot be reasoned with, simply because their "reason" is illogical to our "reason" and vice-versa.... sometimes this gets better as they grow mature.... hello, i use the word "mature", not older... sometimes not... else why do we still have punishements in courts... or in army.... might swell just only counsel these offenders.... dun tell me adults cannot understand better than a 15 yr old kid?????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ......... or is it.....
I'm not blaming the kids, they are not in the wrong, how can they be when to them, this is right!... And sometimes their parents are doing themselves! ..... I'm not blaming the parents... u just love ur kids too much... but u failed to reflect on ur own daily way of action, speech, behaviours... Maybe ur parents do that to urself when u are children.... I dun blame the initators of .. "love-not-cane" ????, cos they need to earn a (good....) living to feed themselves.... and others... they dare to be different... who to blame?? ... hmmm.... why blame.... no one will admit.... no point....
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